*attitudinal problems*

What’s an “attitude”?

Just what is an attitude anyway? When you think about it, all an attitude is is a judgment that we

make about a person based on what that individual says and does. It’s the label we slap on

another person’s behavior when we don’t like that behavior very much.“But it isn't just what he said,” you argue, “it's the way he said it. It's his tone of voice, and facial expression, and mannerisms and demeanor.

Now coming to the point every person has his own individual attitude which represents his behaviour. we can't judge ones attitude just by his behaviour because many major factors such as status, parents, and his sourroundings also play a major role in deciding ones attitude.

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Now it is quite simple to distinguish the problem.

To start, when you feel the need to confront someone who's in need of an attitude adjustment, never use the word “attitude.” It's futile. Any person with a genuinely vile attitude has probably had that fact pointed out to him so many times that he's anesthetized. Raising the attitude issue one more time will undoubtedly be unproductive.Instead, get specific. Is the person egotistical and credit-grabbing? Does she spend too much time socializing? Does he engage in pouting or sulking when he doesn’t get his way? Or is she rude,surly and inconsiderate? All of these behaviors are different, but all of them are commonly

slapped with the “attitude problem” label.

I feel that attitude is never a problem unless until you feel it as a problem since every one has his one and only way is to correct your attitude which is the only weapon to fight in this world.